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Tue, May 1, 2007 at 04:31PM
from: itsduhattityood

Very well said.. indeed. I must agree. And in perfect timing too. I have some thoughts to add to your commentary...but...

Before I respond to your article, o most holy blogger (haha)... let me just say something in response to another question directed to me.

How do I feel?

I feel like a sponge. A saturated sponge. Saturated in the sense that it can no longer hold anything in. On the opposite end, I also feel like a well that has run dry. No more to give to quench the thirst.

Long story short... IT is a basket case. No more room for excuses. Ahh how sad. How very very sad, for I can no longer hear.

"What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

BRB.

Update on Tue, May 1, 2007 at 10:15PM by itsduhattityood
Now... back to the comment ('nuff of the sponge LOL)

I notice your use of the word "a-moral", which simply means "no moral" as opposed to "immoral" which means "noT moral" -- am I right? or am I right? hah! same difference, I suppose.

Not swaying away from what your message is.. (and coming in line with the sponge thingy) ~ it is of my opinion that no amount of this 'so-called-undying-love' will last if your hands are tied. For how can you return that love if everything you think, say, and do make you afar from the person you are?

I have said this once and will have no qualms saying it again (though, really... I don't know what it has got to do with what your message is - hahaha): he who cannot trust anybody cannot trust himself.

Aight. I think I'm talking garbage again. My mind is like a container full of mexican jumping beans. Flop! Flop! Flop! (Don't ask me what the hell that means. It's a new Ceeyanese term).

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Tuesday
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Responding To A Request
Tue, May 1, 2007 at 04:19PM
I have been requested to post this (uhm I wonder why the permission has to be asked. Didn't I say it's a free world, a free country, a free state, a free street, a free free freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee) LOL...

ahh. Gimme' summa that. Ok. Here goes....whoever ye are, blog and blob and blog and blob..

"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney J. Harris

The following article was from an Anonymous writer (not wanting to be known hah!)

Why is it so often that the people that should not be trusted are the first to mistrust others? Is it their own sense of self shame? Are they not the same as those that would cause harm to others so as to empower themselves?  The same persons that lie, cheat and live an amoral life?
While all the while holding another mortal to standards to which they do not desire to be held?
Why are they the ones who expect perfection and monogamy when they can not
or refuse to offer the same in return? Is the doubt and misconception based on ones own misdeeds? Is the mistrust and questioning done because one knows there own heart is indeed black? Indeed rife with deception and misguidance? Can one love when they are otherwise committed? IE to a spouse or another companion?If the relationship is built on a lie can it flourish? Will it wither and die? Can it ever be what one perceives or hopes it to be? Or what both hope for it to be? How can a couple grow if the truth about one or another is not know? When the truth is revealed does it not extinguish the flame of love? Or is love strong enough to overpower all? Is it strong enough to conquer our sense of right and wrong? Does it encourage us to do what we feel is right not what we know is morally correct? Does love indeed corrupt ones own morals? Does the moral compass encompass love?Does love know no boundaries? Maybe it shouldn't know boundaries? But wouldn't that make love , and in turn ones self, selfish? Is selfishness in the name of love ever acceptable? Or is it always wrong? Does that than make it wrong to love on ones own terms? If we love for the sake of love should we forsake all others? Is it ever appropriate to love different people in different ways? (And I am not speaking of familial love) Is it appropriate to have a spouse and a lover? A lover and a intimate partner? What is proper and improper? And does that have a direct connection to morality? Does any of that have a basis that lies within the confines of a religious teaching? Are morals learned or self taught? If self taught then who is to say that ones actions are moral or therefore a-moral? If I decide what is proper or improper who is another to fault me for what I do? A religious sect? What makes there teachings correct? Why should what they espouse hold sway over me? Why should I give over my right to live my life as I see suitable? What makes them more knowledgeable then anyone else? Who is right and who is wrong?